Riding the Waves: Good Days, Bad Days, and Loving Through It All ❤️

Being with my boyfriend for two years has been one heck of a journey—kind of like riding a rollercoaster I didn’t exactly buy a ticket for. With my depression and anxiety tagging along, some days feel like sunshine and calm seas, and others feel like a storm that won’t quit. But here’s the thing: we push through it. Together.

On the good days, everything feels lighter. We laugh like it’s our secret language, plans flow easy, and even my anxious thoughts take a backseat. Those moments remind me why love is worth the fight—the little victories that make life feel alive again.

Then come the bad days. The ones where my brain throws a tantrum, and I’m stuck in a loop of doubt and heaviness. I might want to shut the world out, and sometimes I do. But he’s there—steady, patient, waiting without pressuring me to “snap out of it.” Those days test us, no doubt, but they also prove our strength.

What keeps us going? The knowing that bad days don’t erase the good ones. We’re not perfect, and our love isn’t either. It’s messy, loud, and sometimes exhausting. But every time we push through a storm, we grow a little stronger, a little closer.

So if you’re battling your own waves with someone by your side, remember this: it’s okay to have bad days. It’s okay to not be okay sometimes. What matters is that you show up—both of you—ready to ride the waves together.